The ISTJ personality type is often called the traditionalists. ISTJs are introverted, they mostly keep to themselves and like to stay in their comfort zones. Additionally, they often lack social awareness and may feel awkward in group gatherings. However, when approached 1 on 1 they can be quite friendly!
ISTJs are special because they are so duty focused that they provide a strong structure for their friends, co-workers & families. The ISTJ is also part of the Delta Quadra, along with the ESTJ, INFP and ENFP. All of these types share the same functions but in a different order.
In this article we’ll cover the cognitive functions that make up the ego of an ISTJ, strengths & weaknesses, visual cues, and even compatibility! Read on to learn all the basics about the ISTJ personality type.
Cognitive Functions Of The ISTJ Personality Type
Before we dive in, it is important that you understand the concept of cognitive functions. A cognitive function is a method of perceiving or judging the world.
The primary functions are Thinking, Feeling, Sensing, and Intuition. Each function also has an introverted or extroverted temperament. There are 8 functions in total, and each personality type has 4 in their ego. The cognitive functions of the ISTJ are:
Introverted Sensing Hero
“Si”, or Introverted Sensing, is the strongest function in the ISTJs ego. We call the strongest function the hero, primary function, or dominant function.
Si hero makes ISTJs very dutiful and focused on the past, meaning they have excellent long term memory, and can be extremely disciplined. These types typically take action based on what they should do (obligations), not what they want to do (desires).
ISTJs find joy in the little things like quality time with friends and family.
Extroverted Thinking Parent
The next function of the ISTJ is Extroverted Thinking or “Te”. Their Te parent makes ISTJs active consumers of knowledge by means of podcasts, tutorials, and books. This is also where the type’s “common sense” approach to life comes from.
This function also assists these types when they are working with systems and machines. They have mechanical awareness which comes in handy for practical tasks such as fixing cars, boats, or bikes. These types are likely to own a tool box or two, and enjoy spending time crafting in a shop or garage.
Furthermore, their extraverted thinking inclines them to follow common practices, make decisions using statistical data, and rely on a consensus approach.
Introverted Feeling Child
The Introverted Feeling or “Fi” function means that the ISTJ is not going to readily express their emotions but is what makes them conscientious people. Some might mistake this for not having emotions at all, but much of their decision making is actually based on their own personal values or moral compass.
ISTJs are not likely to tell anyone how they are feeling, and would instead commit an act of service to show their appreciation.
Overall, this type is moral and concerned with being a good person. They are always willing to help a friend or stranger in need. Additionally, an ISTJ will be there to help solve an important issue you are having with the vast knowledge they have accumulated over the years.
Extroverted Intuition Inferior/Aspirational
Ne, or Extroverted Intuition, is a weak spot for ISTJs. This manifests as anxieties around sudden changes in life circumstances, accepting the unknown, or believing in abstract theories. ISTJs are not likely to find validity in magical or spiritual endeavors, but may turn towards prayer or religion for guidance.
A lack of Ne makes these types prone to staying in groundhog day. They do the same thing over and over and may never like to try anything new. A sad truth is that at the end of their lives they may question whether or not they did anything worthwhile or finally decide to chase after their passions.
When an ISTJ finds their Ne and strives to embrace change, they may take to traveling, studying new topics & ideas, and exploring intuitive paradigms. They embrace change and accept the flow of life with an open mind.
Strengths of the ISTJ Personality Type
Dutiful & Dependable
As we have already stated, the ISTJ has Si hero. As a cognitive function, introverted sensing is concerned with duty, endurance, and discipline. Therefore, Si users are more concerned with their needs, than their wants.
An ISTJ will work hard to make sure all of his needs are met. He will strive to fulfill the needs of others who depend on him. Mostly, these types almost never take a day off. Their high tolerance for work and endurance makes them able to work long hours day after day. The ISTJ will also save money to have savings stashed for a rainy day, and is not prone to splurging on frivolous things.
Because of this high sense of dependability, ISTJs are often the structure that a family or business needs to grow strong and flourish.
Even if they never received a formal education, ISTJs are great at teaching themselves through books & life experience. These types are highly knowledgeable and not often made a fool of. Te, or extroverted thinking, is the type of function that can know a little about a vast range of topics.
For an ISTJ, this results in being able to tackle any practical problem that comes their way. More than likely, the ISTJ will have dealt with such a problem before, know exactly how to fix it, or be able to go find the information for a solution They can teach you a little bit about fixing cars, how the banking system works, how to heal a particular illness, even how long to roast a turkey!
Wise and Moral
“Experience is the best teacher”
ISTJs grow and learn through the hardships they face throughout their lives. They often tell stories with a moral lesson to teach their children to be good people.
ISTJs live by strict moral principles such as never stealing, never lying, or always helping those in need. While ISTJs may be emotionally distant, acts of kindness are the way they can show they care.
As they mature, ISTJs gain mastery over their Fi child. They become super patient and non confrontational. Because their Ne inferior is aware that acting upon impulse does no good, they would rather walk away from a situation than enact violence.
Marcus Aurelius was an ISTJ Roman emperor and notable contributor to Stoic philosophy. One of the main teachings of Stoicism is remaining calm and composed in the face of adversity.
Weaknesses of the ISTJ Personality
“If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it”
Sometimes this “stoicism” can be seen as rigidity by other types. ISTJs are unmovable to the point that they can’t be made to take action. You can’t convince them of anything new or unknown. Unfortunately, this type may never seek out new experiences, and only live out the same ones over and over again.
For example, ISTJs may have the same beliefs as they did growing up in the olden days, refusing to adapt to the changes of society. Additionally, ISTJs are often averse to travel, moving, or changing their ways.
Good luck convincing your ISTJ grandpa to buy a computer or smartphone, if he lived his whole life without it, he doesn’t need it now!
Get Stuck In Their Comfort Zone
ISTJS might wait until the very last minute to make necessary lifestyle changes. Oftentimes dire emergencies or strong obligations are the only ways to shake them out of their habits and stubborn ways.
For example, an ISTJ might continually ignore a leaky roof to the point where they live in a house with rot and mold. In extreme cases, they might have a hoarding problem that got out of hand, and now they just put up with the mess.
Lack Social Awareness
ISTJs feel awkward in social situations due to their lack of Extroverted Feeling or Fe. They don’t know what the appropriate response is when it comes to socializing. They can however hold conversations about rational topics such as the political sphere, stocks, or the best lakes to go fishing. ISTJ rarely make jokes, but they love to laugh with those who make them.
Loyalty Can Be Taken Advantage Of
Because they are so dedicated to their responsibilities, ISTJs may stubbornly refuse to take a needed sick day or vacation. If they work for a company that does not value the hard work that an ISTJ puts in, they can easily be taken advantage of. The same can happen with a greedy family that grows to expect the care and support of the ISTJ.
Never let an ISTJs hard work go unacknowledged!
Visual Typing: How To Spot An ISTJ
ISTJs are not uncommon. Out and about they wear a cap, also known as a dad hat, sneakers, and cargo shorts(to carry all their tools presumably). They often spend their free time barbecuing, fishing, or camping. Their practical nature makes them prefer to wear watches and carry a pocket knife at all times.
Due to this type’s commonality, ISTJs have been closely associated with the stereotypical dad meme.
Otherwise, they like to dress for comfort & are conservative in their appearance. Some are more outdoorsy than others, and some prefer a more professional look such as that of a lawyer.
Finally there are others that like the rugged country look & look after the Marlboro man. Here’s one such fellow to give you a better idea of the mannerisms & look of a mature ISTJ man:
ISTJ Interests & Hobbies
Due to their more “concrete” nature (vs intuitive), they prefer interests that relate to the physical world or use the 5 senses.
- Country music
- Exploring craft beers or fine whiskeys
- Perfecting their lawn
- Smoking cigars
- Square dancing
- The stock market
- Telling stories
- Working on their cars
ISTJ Types In Relationships
When dating an ISTJ, they are more likely to choose traditional forms of courting such as buying you flowers or taking you to dinner and a movie. These types are very respectful and very patient. They are responding rather than initiating, and they enjoy intellectual banter and practical matters over conceptual and emotional topics of conversation. ISTJs take their time when entering serious relationships and making commitments, but once they do, you can assure it won’t be broken.
Due to their lack of emotional expression, an ISTJ caregiver may seem distant to their families. This can be problematic to family members who need or expect an emotionally supportive and attentive spouse or parent. However, they actually care a lot. They show affection the best way they know how, working hard to put food on the table and providing stability within the household. Additionally, they always remember birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays.
In a business situation, the ISTJ will often be the first one on call, since they are so reliable. They may even be the glue that holds the establishment together, enforcing systems and efficiency among its members. A lack of organization and effectiveness can make an ISTJ stressed, as they feel the need to correct issues within a system.
Lastly, an ISTJ is unlikely to take a vacation or sick days. Something that is important to consider is that they should be reminded to take it easy every now and then. Their loyalty should not be taken advantage of; remember to show gratitude for all that they contribute to your family or establishment.
Signs You Might Be An ISTJ
- You have vivid memories of your childhood and past important events.
- You learn by facing the real world head on.
- You are a rational thinker and make decisions based on common sense.
- You have a high sense of moral duty and always look to do the right thing.
- You have a difficult time connecting with others on an emotional level.
- You prefer not to partake in gossip or follow the latest social trends.
- You have trouble anticipating the intentions of others
- You have trust in a higher plan, and let life run its course.
- You prefer prefer good ol’ propane to charcoal when it’s grillin’ time
- John Denver’s “Country Roads” brings a tear to your eye… but don’t worry, it’s “5 o’clock somewhere”.
ISTJ Celebrities & Characters
Hank Hill – King Of The Hill
Brian Kim – Clear Value Tax
Tenzin – Legend of Kora
Frequently Asked Questions
Is ISTJ the rarest personality type?
Not at all. These types are common and relatively easy to spot every time you go out. In fact, these types are so common they have their own meme appointed to them! The Dad meme. That’s right, the stereotypical dad meme is actually a portrait of an ISTJ.
What is ISTJ most known for?
ISTJs are most known for their practical mindset. As sensors, these types are mostly concerned with what is real. Tangible matters such as bills, family, and facts backed up by scientific evidence. These types are hardworking and they uphold the law and standard of society. They are good people and model citizens.
What is the dark side of the ISTJ personality type?
The dark side of an ISTJ has a my way or the highway mindset. They can cut you off from their support if you can’t respect their rules and regulations. Their traditionalist mindset can make them closed minded and not willing to listen. They can be extremely naggy when their standards are not being met, driving their family members crazy.
When they face the uncertain, they may turn to alcohol to drown their sorrows. Additionally, ISTJs can be cold and unconcerned with others’ pleas for emotional support. The unhealthy ISTJ might just view them as not strong enough.
What triggers an ISTJ?
ISTJs get stressed when they have to work or live in a chaotic environment. How can anything ever get done without structure? When an ISTJ views their peers as incompetent, they may micro-manage them, and become angry that they need to in the first place.
What makes an ISTJ uncomfortable?
ISTJs are uncomfortable in social situations. They keep to themselves and may stick by the tv at a party. They can engage with others in conversations, but certainly won’t be the life of the party. If you are an ISTJ, others might often ask you why you are so quiet. ISTJs just don’t know the right thing to say or do in these types of situations.
Who gets along well with ISTJ?
ISTJ’s make great friends with ESTP’s. Both types are highly sensory, and can enjoy a number of adventures together.
Who is the opposite of ISTJ?
The ENFP is the opposite of an ISTJ.
What are the social skills of ISTJ?
They really don’t have any, they just hang all by their lonesome, or with their close family and friends.